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Don't Forget to Write Your Letters!


The purpose of Dear Future Husband, Hi is to encourage those with aspirations to be married to write letters to their future spouse.

I Vow

By: Shana McCombs

 

I vow to never tell another guy about you.

Because discussing you to another dude will reveal the truth 

 And one thing I learned is sometimes the truth hurts.

And instead of the truth making things better it can make the situation worse.

 

See it was so long ago but I believe I was between 21-22 

 This guy looked me in the eyes and exposed his truth 

 He said with words so pure and with no intimidation, 

 “Shana you are going to make us a lot of money. And by the way, 4th of July weekend I'm going to drive from Florida, pick you up in Kentucky, and take you to North Carolina to spend time with my family.”

 

Actions speak louder than words but I was young at the time and really didn't understand. 

 I was fresh out of college and I even had a boyfriend!

 And it wasn’t my boyfriend that looked me in the eyes and said those beautiful words.

 

Instead he was a manipulator that did a great job manipulating me. 

 From his words, not his actions, he promised to loved me. 

 But love doesn't fight physically and it certainly doesn't stick you with paying off 10g's 

 

Now, I won't get into details, let's just stick to the truth. 

 Because that manipulator manipulated me so well, that I chose him over you. 

 So a few days before our big trip, I called you up. Exposed my truth. 

 I said, I love you, but right now I'm in love with someone else. 

 

I said in the beginning that sometimes the truth hurts. 

 And instead of the truth making things better, it can make the situation worse.

 After I said what I said, we exchanged a few words and hung up the phone.

 Even though I knew deep down inside, I wasn't happy in my relationship. I felt alone.

 

But there is a saying that you ‘don't open a new door until the old one is shut’

 I cried when I hung up the phone because I had to let you go... but 

 Then again, if you love something let it go and if it comes back then that's how you know.

 

A few weeks later, I woke up in the manipulator’s  arms. 

 Yet and still you were on my mind and my heart.

 That same day, I received a Facebook message from another girl 

 From that message, I discovered that I was not the manipulator's world

 

 I was devastated. I looked the manipulator in the eyes and exposed my truth.

 I said I couldn't believe I chose him over you.

 As soon as I could, I jumped in my car and drove to Florida to visit you. 

 

I couldn’t wait.

 I was so hurt and the thought of seeing you made me happy until I saw your face.

 You weren’t happy to see me, and when I looked in your eyes

 I discovered the feeling of what it's like to hurt a man's pride. 

 

 You still allowed me to stay the weekend. We had so much fun.

 Fun that you even admitted to because you know I'm your one

 But even though that maybe so, you’re still the stubborn kind

 Remember you woke up in the morning, gave me a kiss on the cheek and left for work with a smile on your face. 

 

But when you return home that's when you expose your truth.

 You said, “I've had so much fun with you, I love you, but I can't do this because when it was time, I chose you, but you didn't choose me.”

 As I explained in the beginning sometimes the truth hurts. 

 And instead of the truth making things better it can only make the situation worse.

 

So, I Vow to never tell another guy about you 

 Because discussing you to another dude will reveal the truth

 And that is, no matter what man is in my life, I'll always love you, but I can't choose you... you have to choose me. 

 

And when you chose me, I didn't choose you. 

 So, I vow to never tell another guy about you.

 Because no man wants to hear the girl they love is in love with another man. 

 

Adios amigo 

 and Dear Future Husband, Hi.

 The purpose of Dear Future Husband, Hi is to encourage those with aspirations of being married to write letters to their future spouse.